well, i just got of the phone with my pregnant ex trying to talk with her about names and she has the nerve to tell me "ill name the baby whatever i want and i dont care if you like it or not!"....so needless to say im PISSED OFF!!!!!! she then tells me she will be the only one taking care of the baby and i wont have anything to do with her...she told me she didnt want me at the ultrasound because she didnt even want to speak to me, so i didnt go so she wouldnt be uncomfortable, last time i try and be nice. im so pissed off right now i dont know what to do......i know one damn thing, i will have an attorney by monday afternoon. DAMNIT! sorry guys, i just needed to get some things off of my mind, if i wasnt at work i would be very drunk right now

 

It's very cool you are wanting to be there and take part in the life of your child. I'm not sure if or what a lawyer can do for you but it sounds like a good idea to at least consult one.

 

she seems to think that she can push be out of the babys life and that WILL NOT HAPPEN!!!

 

i hate B***** like that they screw up 2 peoples lives (if you dont mind me sayin). That baby didnt ask to not see her daddy or have him in her life. Pretty F'ed up in my opinion. I would be there every possible chance i get if i were you!!!! Ohhh yea did i mention i LOVE kids i get down to their level very very quick espically my cousins little boy. i think i play with him more than i talk to them when i go over. gotta bring him a BugJuice and some candy everytime toooo. Im pulling up the short driveway and before i kill the truck hes already opening my door that little bugger knows the sound of my truck if im passing on the road!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Just be prepared for the child support that comes with it. As far as I know you have every right as a father to see your child until the judge orders otherwise. Take it from me, the best thing to do is try not to get pissed at her, I know its impossible, but DO NOT let her know your anger. Dont let her know what buttons **** you off or that your loosing your temper, all WILL come back to haunt you. Trust me. If you need proof, PM me, Ill tell you my story. Long story short though, my ex has full custody, moved 1200 miles away with my kids, and I went to jail TWICE. If the judge suspects that you loose your temper easy you will have supervised visitation at the best. Keep cool, get off the phone with her, THEN vent. But do it in a constructive way.

 

Very good advice. ^^ Just be cool with and around her.

 

im tryin to, but damn its hard....i have never even got loud with her but last night i almost lost it.....i was sooo pissed when she said she wont let me have say so in the babys name.

 

im keeping record of everytime i try to call or text about the baby with no response....hopefully i can show a judge i am trying to be in the babys life before shes even born and her mother is trying to keep me away from anything to do with her

 

props to you for trying to be in the babys life. a lot of guys run off and dont want to see them. i just had a baby boy on the 14th of this month and its awesome. as mentioned above, KEEP YOUR COOL AROUND HER!! also, it really sucks having the girl's mom CONSTANTLY trying to run her relationship.....been there done that. it felt lioke i was dating her mom.....

 

lol, yeah her family hates me now, they feel like i left their baby girl pregnant and alone....hell im the one trying to stay friends here and help her out...shes the one that wont talk to me.

congrats on the new baby boy ls1truckguy

and white1- im sorry to hear about that, she sounds like a B****.....we need to start a club or something lol