i met this chick and her boyfriend at the same time about a year ago. i hang with him some and talk to her all the time. ive sensed a connection since we met and she has admitted that she wants me but just wont leave him since they live together and yada yada yada. he treats her like ****, shoves her around, and is verbally abusive. ANYWAY this whole thing came up at work today and i got mixed responses from everyone, some saying not to even **** around with her and others saying make her realize what shes missing. I was thinking of sending her flowers at work for valentines day because i KNOW he wont.. itd stir the pot for sure, something i like to do hahaha.

lets hear it.

 

If he is crazier than you then walk away...

 

Yeah that is territory you don't want to venture into. If she hasn't left him yet because he is a piece of $hit she probably won't either. I have been down that road and wasted many a time with it. Women like to flirt, period...... doesn't mean she is suddenly going to pack bags and run for you.

My advice on this?????? RUN!

 

well i can say i have been in those shoes. i will also tell you that 5 years later that very same girl is now my wife and we have 3 amazing kids together. so with that being said its only worth it if you want it to be. i had nights i could not sleep without thinking of her. but a wise old man once told me "for every hot girl there is one guy tired of ******* her." just be prepared for what lies ahead with her current boyfriend if you chose to make a move.

 

Tell her you have a 12" crank...









In all seriousness, don't lie about that. Ok, I would avoid it. If she is putting up with his **** and keeps putting up with it then you are wasting your time IMO. If you send her flowers she will end up telling him at some point, he obviously has her wrapped around his finger to put up with that crap and stick around. I would just sit back and let it unfold between the two of them, if things are really that bad then it shouldnt last. If it does last then you have to ask yourself, is there something screwed up with her? Some women feed off of that crap as messed up as it is.

 

You stirring the pot makes you no better than him. He has a gf, she has a bf, the fact that she is willing to attempt ******* around with you just because he is an idiot makes her unreliable. She could simply walk away and leave.

 

Tell her leave the other guy or quit talking to you. End of story.

 

So after reading this if I was you I woulf be nice to her **** her couple times and move on she is just craving attention from someone so give it to her. Just remember your only as faithful is to what your dick leads you too.

 

This is a tough one. She may be an attention hound, and just looking for someone to give her compliments to make herself feel better. If the guy truly treats her that bad, then she needs to get out of the relationship for her own good, or she has some mental issues. If she leaves him after things get going with you, you will never trust that she won't do it to you. She could be out with the girls for a night, and you will always suspect her of doing the same to you. If I were to give advice, you could say something along the lines of too bad you are in a relationship, I would like to meet a girl like you that is single. You never know, she may end up single very soon. It's funny how life works out.

 

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