Ok I need some help......
#13
Is it a nice car? If it is one afternoon just mention to him. Man that car that was over there this morning was a beautiful car. Did yall get a new car?
I mean is this guy a friend? I know if my friend thought my wife was up to no good then Id hope he would tell me.
buit 1st go over while the car is there and knock on the door and tell her --- service or busted
I mean is this guy a friend? I know if my friend thought my wife was up to no good then Id hope he would tell me.
buit 1st go over while the car is there and knock on the door and tell her --- service or busted
#14
Damnit AP beat me to it. Id go get some from her 1st.
Not sure how to handle it, I wouldnt want to be with someone thats messin around on my, but at the same time, what you dont know wont hurt you.
everyone has skeletons in their closet. Do you really want to destroy someone (trust me my second divorce almost killed me) based on something thats really none of your business?
Not sure how to handle it, I wouldnt want to be with someone thats messin around on my, but at the same time, what you dont know wont hurt you.
everyone has skeletons in their closet. Do you really want to destroy someone (trust me my second divorce almost killed me) based on something thats really none of your business?
#15
Or......................................
You could ask him if he is having transmission problems, cause you noticed the rental car out front in the morning, and would like to offer him any help with it, if he needs it..
You could ask him if he is having transmission problems, cause you noticed the rental car out front in the morning, and would like to offer him any help with it, if he needs it..
#16
Vince, I'd leave that one alone honestly brother. Maybe just watch from a distance to find out what eventually happens, or maybe even drop her a hint to cut the **** out. but I'd let them handle it, like its been said. He'll eventually find out anyway. Just my 2% of a dollar.
#17
Toughy there... I'd still go video the car for evidence sake. If it turns out nasty for the guy, anonymously place a copy of the video b/t the windshield and wiper blade of his car. Make sure you note the time, date, and location in the video.
Reminds me of an episode of Cheaters. You could email them the story, and see how that plays out.
Reminds me of an episode of Cheaters. You could email them the story, and see how that plays out.
#18
I had a few people talking about me in my second marriage. I was far from an angel, but what was said was NOT true. Ive been on both sides of the fence. Id leave it alone and mind your own business
#19
i would rather someone tell me straight out, BUT!!! most people dont, it is something only you can decide, but be able to live with the decision. personally i would do something like allstar said, i would probably say something like "i noticed yall have a new car in the driveway in the mornings, do yall have family over?" or if you dont know him well enough for that "i noticed a car in the driveway the other morning and i just wanted to make sure it was someone who was supposed to be there" ....i have said the 2nd one to a neighbor b/c i thought they were out of town and a starnge car was there one night, turned out to be a cousin checking on the house....just my .02 remember, its your decision nobody elses
#20
I'd say it really depends on how good of a friend the guy is. I too would kinda like to know if it were me, but I also agree with Colby in a lot of ways to stay out of others affairs--no pun intended. I guess asking how good of a friend he is, means, if you tell him that you have noticed what you have seen, will the guy believe you or try to call you out and cause aggressions between you and him. If you do tell him, you might try inquiring about the car at first, but I would definitely try to capture that **** on video or at least camera first to just have documented proof, if he does believe you and confronts the wife, the gig is up, might as well have the proof in hand first.


