I have situation that I'm not sure how to handle. I have a married couple that are neighbors of mine that I believe is having some marriage issues. First off I get up every morning at 600am. I normally shut the porch light off and then open my blinds. Well about a month ago I noticed that in front of my neighbors house there has been a new car. Not one that they drive. Hubby leaves for work at 430am and well when I get up this car is there. It leaves around 645am and she leaves at 715am to go to work. The car is never there when the man of the house is home. I have seen this dude, I'm pretty sure I know how this story goes. My question is "if it were you you would want to know right!" I feel if it were me I would want to know. Not sure how to tell him and I really don't want to see my neighbor freak out and do something stupid. I want to do this the right way and would also like to figure out a way to maybe catch her to confirm my suspicion. I have a few ideas on how to really help him in the divorce as far as evidence to make his case really strong. Camera's, GPS, phone records, CC receipts, and so on which I'm pretty sure the evidence will confirm. My question is what to do?

 

wow thats a tough one. eventually he'll find out on his own no way around it. id just say something like "hey (insert name here), is someone staying with ya'll? ive been worried cuz i keep seeing a suspicious car in the neighborhood and the other day it was parked at ur house at (insert time), and i wanna make sure u knew in case its a burglar." idk what else to tell u from there its up to him to figure it out... act like u dont pay attention to what has been going on at his house most of the time tho and just say u were concerned for their safety.

 

Yeah, don't call him out or anything, because the last thing you want if it was you is other people all up in your biz. That is a good idea like allstar mentioned. Act like the suspicious car bothers you and like "Man, I am thinking of calling the police about this car, do you know whose car it is?" And tell him "I am just telling you because it's in front of your house, and I would want you to do the same for me if a suspicious car was at my house daily when I wasn't home" Then MAYBE (if your neighboor isn't pshyco) tell him to come by if he gets a break from work to check this car out.

I don't know your neighboor, but I would definately mention something like allstar or I said. Just use your best judgement.

Definately tell him in a non shalant (sp?) way though.

 

I would try to get some from her first!!! nah, j/k....lol...

seriously a situation like that sucks and if that ***** is doing that, then I have no respect for people like that, you have a good idea, help your neighbor out by video camera all this stuff to help him out (evidence wise)..... cause it sucks that men are the ones who always loses in these case's when women do this kind of ****... I bet your neighbor or anyone in this situation will be greatly appreciated.... by the way keep us updated...

 

That's some funny haha



+1 on keeping us updated

 

what i would do is video the car and stuff before u tell him so he doesnt say stuff to her and he finds a way to not drive his car to that house.

 

you should tell him, and make a plan... tell him to go to work, but actually meet you at a gas station or something. pick him up and bring him back to you house so he can see the car for himself. once the car is there, bust into the house and catch the bitch redhanded !!! thats what i would do !!! just make sure u have a video camara so you can post up the video of what happens !!!!

 

not to be rude, but it's best to mind your own business

That person could be a number of things...

 

but when ur business is not interesting enough... mind other peoples business for them

 

True, but I personally would like to know if a strange car was parked at my house. I agree with just mentioning it to him, something like what allstar mentioned..