Like I said, I think I would want to know and someone to tell me if I was in a position like this if thats whats happening. But who knows?

But I have also been in Vince's shoes before. Had a good friend of mine, I knew but did not have evidence, but saw with my own eyes his wife cheating on him. Figured he should know so I told him. Mind you this was one of my best friends, he made up excuses, didn't want to believe me, called me everything under the sun but a friend. Needless to say we're not friends anymore, and I've made it a point to say **** it from here on out, I don't get caught up in the drama.

 

yeah, i guess i see it diff. but regardless its a tough situation. im glad i dont have these probs.

 

I like this idea. Just ask if he got a new car. When he says no, say something like oh, I have seen a different car at your house a few times, I thought it was yours. Then drop it and leave it up to him to figure out.

 

Just tell the husband about the suspicious car and walk away.

Lisa

 

methinks: Vince just isn't getting enough at home and he's jealous that the lady across the street gets more than him.

btw: I find it absolutely hilarious that Vince chose the "Southern" section to ask a question requiring ethics, sensitivity and inner thought

 

Hahaha

 

We need pics!

 

that's really easy to do, keep your car/truck out of the picture and be sure not to send it from "your" cell phone.



I used to live in a shady complex. I got really tired of some ******* folding back my mirrors on my truck. The same guy always parked next to me, and I thought that it was either him or the girlfriend. I asked if he was doing it, and "they" said no. So being pissed about it, I borrowed a cheapie web cam, and downloaded some free trial web cam software. (goggled record on motion) It shows the time stamp, date, and whatever else Got the cam, and software, pointed the cam in the parking lot, and waited for a night. Turned out it wasn't the guy that I suspected, but the loud *** chunky bitch that lived above me. She was too lazy to walk around.

I'm saying if you're wanting to get creative about, and just email an anonymous video of some car pulling up around 6am, that'd be the easy way to do it. Then he'd had video proof about it.

 

Remember: It's only "anonymous" if sent via "no source" tied to Vince. Hence burning it to a CD labeled "Suspicious Car Seen In Front of Your Home" b/t the windshield wiper and the windshield would be better than email (IMO).