she's not the bar type, neither of us are, she works like 70 hours a week and overnights so we never went out at night that much so thats not a problem. like i said, most of the time i"m good, but like driving home today it hit me that that future is gone and i about lost it. i guess i just have to man up and deal...

 

internet date man, a buddy of mine did that for a couple of months, he ended up hooking up with several girls, it helped him get over his ex....

 

hah, not sure thats my style... we'll see how it goes. I'm going to try and go hunting a few weekends coming up, that will help I'm sure... Being out in the woods is nice, but blowing the head off of an unsuspecting animal would do wonders I'm sure!!

 

The biggest thing I did was get a new truck. Well not exactly new. I bought a wrecked truck and rebuilt it by hand with no power tools despite having them. I did nearly all of it by myself. I went to work, then went home and worked on it. I built the truck as I had the money, and if I didn't have money to replace something, I would attempt to fix it. Not only did I learn alot about the vehicle and myself, I worked through it. It took me nearly 2 months fix the truck. I took it apart and put it back together many times after that. I sold the truck I had with her, cause that kept bring back memories driving around in it. I started buying junk trucks, and taking them apart and putting them back together, played with them up and down the road, sold a few and crushed the rest. I not only learned stuff but it kept me busy nearly constantly.

Then I did the internet dating just to stay busy and constantly going. Don't do it just to score with a bunch of women, but do it to met new faces. Date girls you would normally not date at all. Get online and find some EMO or gothic girls to go out with, if you are like me and always thought they were wierd. Spends some time talking to them. Sounds stupid but it will totally get your mind off your situation. Put yourself in safe but completely out of the norm position, where you are more likely to watch and listen and not think quite so much.

My ex tried every game in the book waiting for her to sign the divorce paper work. It took her 2 years, when she saw her games weren't working on me anymore, it made her extremely mad at me, which, made things that much easier for me.

 

i did ditch my old truck last week, that was one of the reasons i did it, i bought it in 01, hooked up with her about 10 months later and have riden in it with her almost every day since... had to get rid of it... got my new baby last wednesday a week to the day after she left.

 

Hey I'm just trying to help a brother out.

 

She's always got a comment...

 

It took me 30 years and many heartbreaks to find to wonderfull woman I am with now. No we are not married and we do not live together. I have never been married. I have had several women live with me and rushed into those relationships I guess in a sense to try to make them work? Hell what did I know? I'm a guy, I was checkin the oil with my dipstick and didn't realize how many qts low they were.

I got my heart broke in pieces by my high school sweetheart, actually we had know each other from the time she was 9 and I was 11, we started dating later and that went on till I was 21 or so, 7-8 years off and on. My next serious realtionship was with a lying *** good for nothing bi-polar pill head and it took me 2 years to to wise up!! Then I met one of the best things to ever happen to me, she taught me what was really important in life I will always value the what I learned about women and myself thanks to her. Then she moved in!! I asked her to marry me and 2 weeks later I come home and she is gone!! Everything!! Not even a note and wont answer my calls etc.. You would think by now I would have learned from my mistake but no I didn't. Same story with the next without the engagement part. What I did learn after the first heartbreak and from the second is that you can't let the fear of getting hurt affect the next relationship, you have to give it all you can. I am now with a wonderfull woman who live 2 houses over from me, we have been together for a year and a half. I'm not scared to get my heart broke anymore, I've been through it and by now I know how to deal with it. I wasted many a chance with some very good girls due to the fear of getting hurt.