i disagree i'm still laughing at that comment

but that is a shitty situation buddy, best thing you could do at this point is not get ahold of her or return her phone calls. no point in making her jealous or anything, best bet would be to just let it go and move on. easier said than done, but it's time to go fishing as they would say. As several have posted before, it could have been far worse had it happened later down the road.

just make yourself happy doing your own thing now, though i don't recommend drinking your sorrows away as that just seems to cause me to dwell on **** once i'm plastered, making it worse.

 

I can understand that. I went to run some bills in with my ex after she left me. It was like I was out with a complete stranger or something. It was a very strange feeling.

 

My biggest delima at this point is that I do love her, I can't change that inside I love her and what we had, however the fact that she's done this, she's blown up what we had, I don't really like her so much anymore. It makes for quite the internal complication and many a sleepless night.

 

Something you will have to learn to come to terms with. You will never really stop loving her, but you will stop caring about her. The absolute best thing you can do is, cut ties and move on. No more going out with her, don't do anything you would have done with her. If you must make yourself hate her, find something to be pissed at her about. It will make it a little easier.

 

I agree. I personally would take this instance and honestly I would channel some hate thru it. My 1st serious relationship I ended up finding out rather quickly she was fu*king crazy. However I had to detach myself and peace it other wise I would be entirely miserable. Other than just make urself not care theres really nothing else to do. Stop thinking about it. Just dont take up drinking cuz thats bad news bears

Good luck, I hope we can help u pull thru man. All else fails order a **** ton of parts for ur truck and try and knock it all out in one night

 

I'll be good to go before to long I'm sure, I remember the first time I was in a serious thing, it ended up where I moved away for college and we just kinda didn't stay together, it hurt, and I dwelled on it for a little while, then after a while I didn't even think about it anymore, about that time is when I met Ashley, wasn't looking, wasn't trying, just met her and 6 years later here we are.

 

Dude, I just got a divorce about 2 years ago, my ol lady was doing some not lady like things when we were apart, but you have to stay away, or you will always be suspicious if shes gonna pull that **** again and it will just screw things up even worse. Life for me sucked for about a year, I went through women like I went through socks, not the best route but hell it worked and my emotional scaring has healed, and I think Im a better person now. It really made me think about who I let handle my heart.

 

that is freakin funny!!!

 

how do you guys that went through divorces do it? what do you do on a daily basis to keep your emotions in check and your mind off of what you lost? i do pretty good, but every couple days it all flashes in front of me that my future has totally changed, i was excited about starting a family soon after the wedding, now that isn't going to happen, it can someday, but it might not... how do you guys deal with that?

 

listen to a different radio station, sell your car, get a new bed, plow a bunch of girls, and find a new favroite place to eat, and dont drink at the bar she goes to. As for the rest, when you think about her, think about how she hurt you and you wont miss her nearly as much. Oh and instead of saying her name substitute "that bitch" it worked wonders for me.