i was engaged once, but i was also still in the military(oversaeas) and she was back here in Mississippi. It didn't work out and the same week i bought a new car. Still happy with the way it worked out too

 

AMEN BROTHER

sorry to hear that.. i know it would tear me up too. i would suggest the above post to drown your sorrows. thats EXACTLY what i would do.

welcome to pt.net, btw.

 

Sell the ring, keep the house, buy a new truck and screw her best friend

Life is great without a wife

 

nah, no kids yet, we were planning on starting that once the wedding was out of the way. i am very glad this happened before the wedding, it would have just been more of a hassle then. it comes and goes right now, yesterday i had a pretty good day until one of my good friends at work brought up the halloween party we were going to tomorrow night and asked what ash was going to be, i lost it right there with him... some of it is embarassment, most of it is being hurt by losing such a big part of my life. i know it will get better.

 

Yah dude it will get better, I went threw it a few years back, with a girl for along time, just didn't work, ya feel empty as ****, still think what if sometimes. Friends is the key, well more women, what else.Why feel embarassed 98.99% of everybody has gone through it at one point.. Think of it now as you can do what ever with out ??? Dress up as a pimp for the party, get you some hoe's along wit it, it will be all GOODER..

John

 

Time will heal. It is hard to go through. But these things are what truely seperate the boys from the men. People that know me say I am a very hard individual after what I have gone through. I used to let people walk all over me, and now, I don't let anyone do that. Some say it is a good thing, some say bad. All I can say is there is very little I fear in life now, and before, man what a difference.

 

ahh **** her names ash too...

and +1 on the bestfriend thing haha

 

AMEN Brotha!

 

you guys are all wise and all knowing... I appreciate the support.

 

Like others have said, you dodged a bullet. Count your blessings, and count yourself back on the market. There are lots of gorgeous, funny, smart women out there....go get you one!!!