What have you guys done to fix this. the crossover pipe is really pushing on the transmission cooler lines.

 

Run hydraulic hose and some AN fittings. Completely reroute the line going from the trans to the radiator. Here's a site that sells fittings you will need.
http://www.redhorsedirect.com/parts4/index.htm

Or you can just try and bend the factory lines by hand and move them out of the way.