Well, the day starts off with me not being able to find a wash cloth to use in the shower. That is the number 1 thing I do when I wake up, I take a shower. I find out that my 3 year old peed in her bed and the sheets need to be changed before I leave. Ok, late for work.

Mom calls, she took my 1 year old to the Doctor for me. Not only does the 3 year old have strep and an ear infection, the 1 year old has an ear infection. Nice two cranky kids, wonderful.

I go about my day, and things are sailing along fairly smoothly from here. I walk in an office to drop off an invoice. I was perfectly on time as they were having a problem and I am their new hero. Before I can get out of the office I get a call.

My (sweat heart baby sister I never had) friend is crying on the trying to talk. At first I totally miss what she is saying, so I ask her to speak a little slower for me. Her ex boyfriend is harassing her again. Now he has run off her new boyfriend. The ex has some sort of tap or bug, and knows who and when someone is in her house, who she talks to on her cell phone even while driving, and who she contacts online. She is terrified, scarred, and upset about just breaking up. I get her calmed down, I promise to "TAKE CARE" of anyone that messes with her, after all, I promised her family (I have known this girl since she was in diapers) to take care of her when they moved. (I was working on her car, when I burned my hand 3 weeks ago.)

I get back to work, and my wife calls me fussing because her boss went home early, but she has to work late. This leads to the 3rd argument of our 3 year marriage (we have small disagreements, but don't argue)and end with me hangin up the phone.

I come home with a head of steam; I am mad, really mad. I choke down some supper, love on the girls a little, then find out my missing bank statements have come in the mail today. My wife didn't know what they were, and she left them by the computer. Now, lets recap some history. My wife can't manage money, I took her debt card away from her and put it in my dresser, I also took her check books away. So here I am, starting to reconcile the bank statements, 4 months late, I find the first 2 months are right, then things go bad wrong. In 2 months time, I am $400 in the negative. I go though again and find that I had put a fake check in 2 months ago, so I am really only $200 in the negative. I look around, then ask the wife, where is your debt card. Hmm, guess what it is in her purse. Well, now it seems that the bank statements have been conveintly disappearing.

Errrrr, I have no dead proof only strong suspicion so I am not going to yell or fuss. I took the debt card and cut it in tiny little pieces and laid it in front of her. Then I walked over to the heater (wife is always freezing), and turned it off, and turned the fans on. I dropped things down to a nice comfy 65 degrees in here, and I simply dare her to say something to me. I am going to enjoy the rest of my evening.

Rant off, tomorrows another day, and things will be fine. Just annoying.

Oh, and I think I am going to take my friend out and teach her how to shoot a pistol. I think it might benefit her anyway. 5' 5", blonde hair, blue eyes, 120 lbs, 22 years old, single in the house by herself. I think she needs some sort of protection. And before anyone says it, I am basically her big brother, the one she depends on, nothing wierd here, so don't go there. Although, my wife does call her my girlfriend, but only as a joke.

 

I'd flip **** if someone tried to tap my phone and stuff.

 

I went over to her house, and yelled I am going to put a bullet in your head if this doesn't stop. We hadn't heard a peep until last week, when the threats to the new boyfriend started.

Her ex is engaged to be married, yet he does weird stuff. He goes every year to where their first date, on that date. He then sends her messages trying to get her to join him, but yet, he is engaged. He was dating another friend of mine and my wife told her to cut it off and she did. He hasn't bother her at all, but she lives with her dad, and he isn't a person to mess with. The ex-boyfriend is 34. He is beyond creapy, but he had my friends bluffed big time.

 

damn. in hope tomorrow is better

 

go through the house checking for taps. Check all the phones internally, vents, shelves. If you find anything call the cops and tell them someone bugger her house and they can trace it back to him. If there's anything with a video feed he can get into some **** for real. If they won't do anything, call the local news, they eat that **** up.
Assuming your cops will DO anything. Most cops today don't go through that kind of trouble. If it isn't a Traffic stop, wreck, burglary, or drug bust, they really don't give a damn.

 

You and me both. But I am going to the CPA to get my taxes done. I am essentially self employeed, so I don't see it getting much better. Although, I am going to see about selling 22-26 computers to a school. So it might not be so bad.

 

I know the cops in the area, as I do both the police and sherriff dept computers. She is known by the police department. She has many friends there, but she is afriad of what will he will do if she goes to them. I might wind up having a room mate for a bit.

 

its a great day to whoop somebody's a$$, thats the only song that came to mind, when i read this, sorry man, i have em too,

 

Maybe we should have a pt get together and let everyone from out of state beat the snot out of him. Then everyone can go home, and the cops won't know who to track down. He has a 2000 corvette we could strip.

 

well I wouldnt mess with the creeps car, but since your a computer guy, I would look into that program, I forget what its called, something ghost maybe, but it records all the keystrokes, cookies, web pages, etc. if you could find that and link it to him from her computer thats a federal charge. other than that ask if one of your cop friends could leave a cruiser at her house for a while. Im not sure on the policy but you could say your doing some work for em or something.