More grown up talk :(
Sep 5, 2012 | 02:58 AM
#12
GFYS and STFU
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Going to Costa Rica with that girl was a bad idea!!
btw, you'll be happy to know that the "douche bag" that was arrested for DUI was also booked for a slew of other crimes including possesion. Lorrie found out through work and volunteered to be a witness against him just because she thinks he's a douch!
SMH
Sep 5, 2012 | 04:47 AM
#15
I'm 31, an I was with my babys mom 7yrs my lil grl is 5. Her an my family wanted more kids an marriage but I didn't feel the same. I think when your ready(with right person) you will be the one to ask the person you want to get married.
Sep 5, 2012 | 05:54 AM
#16
ive only been married 7 months dated her 2 years then got engaged and left her hanging for 4 years been together a total of 6 yrs 7 months. she likes a lot of things i do, but she has her own things to do so i get guy time still. a lot of the ease on my relationship is she was still in college and i was already in the work force and we didnt have any kids together. your relationship is easier with the ease of doing what you want when you want. hell if it wasnt for her id still have a roommate (my own house though) and id have a ton of toys that i dont need 
if it didnt feel right, and she is telling you to make a choice as of marry me now or lose me then she really wasnt for you. seems bossy and its gotta be her way or the highway type. if you are thinking of buying a house, then do it now vs after you are married or you get screwed big time if it ends
im sorry she was selfish enough to end things vs getting married
dated her 2 years then got engaged and left her hanging for 4 years been together a total of 6 yrs 7 months. she likes a lot of things i do, but she has her own things to do so i get guy time still. a lot of the ease on my relationship is she was still in college and i was already in the work force and we didnt have any kids together. your relationship is easier with the ease of doing what you want when you want. hell if it wasnt for her id still have a roommate (my own house though) and id have a ton of toys that i dont need if it didnt feel right, and she is telling you to make a choice as of marry me now or lose me then she really wasnt for you. seems bossy and its gotta be her way or the highway type. if you are thinking of buying a house, then do it now vs after you are married or you get screwed big time if it ends
im sorry she was selfish enough to end things vs getting married
Sep 5, 2012 | 06:25 AM
#17
On The Tree
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From: maryland
As everybody has said the right time is when you feel it's right. If you have any doubts don't do it you will regret it. I met my wife when I was 18 she pushed the marriage thing and at the time I wasn't ready so I left her. We ended up getting back together and engaged when I was 20 and she was 22. I made her wait for 4 years for the big day Im 26 and shes 28 now we've been married 2 years now and have a little boy. Theres a few things I woulda changed before having my son but can't go thru life wishing you did things different younwillmdrive yourself nuts. I personally feel that you shouldn't even think about actually getting married Or having kids till your mid 20s you are still figuring your life out. You definitely need to live together for a bit before you get married. That's when you find everything out if y'all can handle each others quirks and make it work that way 1st. At the end of the day when you meet the right person you will know when to do the whole marriage/ family stages of life and don't ever be pressured into it.
best choice i made before getting married
Sep 5, 2012 | 08:48 AM
#20
All this is true talk. Don't rush anything. We only go through life 1 time, and in my mind the less mistakes the better. Marriage in my eyes is nothing more then a piece of paper. All of my friends that were married in there early- mid 20's are divorced, back at it again. I was in the same boat some years back, with a chick for a long time, she was wanting to get more and more serious, I was not ready to make that next step. She flipped out and ultimately we ended our ties. Yes it sucked, but I do not regret it. Stay single, mingle as long as you can, hang out with your friends. You have no one to answer to. Hell I might not ever get hitched. I am 30, still in no hurry. I do what I want when I want 
Just my op though. Best of luck.
Just my op though. Best of luck.and most friends i have are dealing with divorce as well
dude this is crazy
