Damn, so sorry to read this. I wish you all the best.

 

dam man thats terrible. Sorry to hear that. Hope everything works out in both favors and you find your ways soon. Take care, keep your head up!

 

thanks everyone for the words of encouragement. The only thing that would make it all better is if i had the 3.1 blower from magnuson on my 447 instead of the twins.... Brian hint hint.

 

You may've said why she's done w/. you & I missed it. Or perhaps, u don't care to. Various things fracture relationships: in no order, stress, cheating, not what they (any 2 people) thought, $, jobs, & so on.

venomhp, remaining friends or keeping contact w/. each other could prolong the healing process. I'm no Romeo, just sayin it's possible. I'd say it's a case by case basis. Midnight would probably prefer to tho from what I've read here.

I can't imagine how hard this is, but you've shown a lot of class! As have others who've replied. Supportive friends are like family. Family is #1 in my book. Cause when no one's there, family/ great friends will be before anyone. Good luck & head up.

Midnightrider, how would a 3.1 Maggie be better than twins? I thought u wanted turbos, in fact, 2?

 

I cant even imagine what your going through me only being 21 and never having a real gf but its good to see that you two are working things out the way you did and not going completly pycho on each other which seams to be the regular thing nowadays, but times like this makes you really appreciate your real friends, keep your head up

 

Unfortunately, I know exactly what your going through. My first marriage/divorce ended much in the same way. Its not easy thats for sure and does suck.

You can and will get thru it. I was bitter towards all women for a long time, but it does get better. We did not stay friends though we were civil thru the uncontested divorce, I haven't seen her since before it was final and can honestly say I'm glad it happened that way, staying friends in my opinion would have been a constant reminder.

Just remember, no matter how bad things seem today, they will get better if you let it.

 

Jason I'll repeat what I told ya a couple of weeks ago...You have friends for support and I'm one of them....If you ever just want a weekend to hide and just chill my door is open for you...Plus you promised to stop by any way.

 

When one door closes...another one opens. Just DON'T sit around alone and listen to sad songs and feel bad about it!! Once you allow yourself to heal, I'm betting you will find someone (or they will find you) that truly appreciates and loves you for who you really are. You will be okay man, keep busy and be thankful for all the other good things in your life. Take care buddy.

 

damn, im very sorry to hear this. keep ur head up, everything happens for a reason.

 

Well said. I hope things work out for you. Vince