found the guy that my wife has been having an affair with
#31
fellas, thank you all, each one of you for your advice to me. i didn't reply to each one individual but i am downloading what you all have said into my brain. i have my course of action. i'm gonna ride it out till our court date. then wife the court room with her ***.
#35
Originally Posted by white1
Best thing to do when you separate is to make her so miserable that she leaves. If she leaves the kids, thats abandonment. If she takes them, its kidnapping. 

as long as you make an appearance at least once in a two week time frame thats not abandonment in ms. also, util the divorce is final there is no parental kidnapping in ms either. so i can go get my son when i want. i'm trying to be civil and not start any ****.
i talked to her sister today and told her to cut the money supply off. her sis is loaded and was shocked to here just half of what i have told yall about. btw, her sister is hawt.. she's older but i'd hit it.
also, my truck is tucked safely away in the bayou.
these are the updates that i found today. her trailblazer is three two months behind. house is one month behind, four wheeler is 3 months behind not two like she admitted to.
i'm either one hell of a PI or she is just stupid as ****. she came here again to my new home today. i allowed to take a nap while i did some work outside. low in behold she got on my computer and contacted some people. all of my temp net files were deleted. lol.
#37
Originally Posted by goshawk23
i allowed to take a nap while i did some work outside. low in behold she got on my computer and contacted some people. all of my temp net files were deleted. lol.
even the "deleted" temp files can be restored. the unsuspecting yo-yo doesn't realize that. you should work on that, and throw that information back at her.
#39
Originally Posted by goshawk23
i allowed to take a nap while i did some work outside. low in behold she got on my computer and contacted some people. all of my temp net files were deleted. lol.
this is not a good thing, you really need to get the files restored and find
out just who she e mailed and what was said.
i will give you a good reason why.
4 years ago a friend went with me and my brother to llano county
for some prospecting, well me and my brother did the prospecting
he drank beer and played with the fire.
for him it was a weekend get away from everything.
while he was with us his soon to be X went in to his house and did some
hate mail from his e mail address to her e mail address to be used in court.
she tried to use it as proof of the way he mentaly abused her, threatened her life, threatened her family and all kinds of stuff.
the only thing that kept his *** out of jail was me and my brother.
get the files restored, find out who was e mailed and what was said
and change your password so it does not happen again.
you left your self open and she took advantage of it.
#40
I would cut through the drama , You seam to enjoy it and that will be your doom.
It is one thing to get dirt on her and quite another to have her nap at your home durring what you describe as a real bad time and experience with her. Actions speak louder then words or even papers with proof of misdoings and your actions need to come in line with your words before you start court..
If you want son , file a petition for him , if you want to give up cars , home , atv contact the banks and make arrangements or pay what is past due and take possession of items. If you want her out of your life don't allow her to nap at your place.
I am sure both of ya have dirt or other issues to show each other is disliked and untrusted , a court already knows before you show up ya have issues hence being in divorce court..So concentrate on issues that mater over the long haul such as the Son and finances and let her do what it is she does with out any discussion or friendly look at me i am a nice guy I helped her out last week..
It is one thing to get dirt on her and quite another to have her nap at your home durring what you describe as a real bad time and experience with her. Actions speak louder then words or even papers with proof of misdoings and your actions need to come in line with your words before you start court..
If you want son , file a petition for him , if you want to give up cars , home , atv contact the banks and make arrangements or pay what is past due and take possession of items. If you want her out of your life don't allow her to nap at your place.
I am sure both of ya have dirt or other issues to show each other is disliked and untrusted , a court already knows before you show up ya have issues hence being in divorce court..So concentrate on issues that mater over the long haul such as the Son and finances and let her do what it is she does with out any discussion or friendly look at me i am a nice guy I helped her out last week..


