2012 ram 1500, cant seem to find anyone that can do a dod delete or a cat delete. someone help please. Im so pissed

 

I haven't looked at a dodge hemi tune on HP Tuners yet, their software might be able to do it.

I do know putting the truck in manual 6th does shut it off though.

Also you didn't say where you are, what you have tried, what exactly you are looking for.

Do you want someone to tune it for you?
Do you want to buy a tuning software to do this yourself?
Have to contacted a performance shop to ask them if they will/can do this?

Just don't be surprised if some shops will not do a cat delete because that is against the "law" or for offroad purpose only and if you are in an emissions state that is also another issue.